Sunday, September 16, 2007

Great Support

I must say that even though it completely sucked getting my car smashed to smithereens there were a few good things that did come out of it. I found out that after two years of living here that I actually do have some pretty nice neighbors. Gordon and I already knew that the family we share the duplex with are amazing people but there are the old noisy people that live to the right of us that wakes us up at the crack of dawn every morning with them talking to each other loudly because they can’t hear & their yapping dogs and then there is the creepy Asian guy that lives next door to us on the left that likes to squat down on his porch while he smokes and look through the fence in our yard and who practically parks his car or puts his trashcans in our driveway. So with these two uncomfortable situations we were hesitant to meet anyone else unfortunately.

However, when this hit and run occurred everyone around us seemed to be very helpful and very nice. I finally got to meet the family that lives on the corner of our street that I have been wanting to meet for quite awhile now. They seemed pretty nice and punk rock themselves. Then I met an older woman two houses down and then I ended up befriending a girl that lives across the street from us which has a pretty cool family and I am sure I will be talking to quite a bit from now on. All three of these families luckily were witnesses to the hit and run and were more than willing to help me out with everything. Desiree, my new friend across the street, told me about a couple that lives directly across the street from the construction site where everyone said the lunch truck came from, so Gordon and I went to their house that night and they were the full on old hippy couple. They were more than willing to help me out and let me know if they saw the lunch truck again and I swear they were having flashbacks as I stood in their kitchen, they were really out there! LOL!

The next day at noon I decided to walk around the corner to see if the lunch truck showed up. I saw the two cops that helped us out staking out the place hidden away. It really made me feel good that they were still on this the next day. I ended up talking to them and they said that they had talked to the foreman of the construction zone and he was more than willing to help. However, the foreman said that the lunch truck had been coming twice a day for months and that day was the first time he had never came by and his crew had to leave and go get lunch. He said he didn’t have the catering truck name or number but he knew the drivers first name which was a start. Unfortunately when I went around the block on Friday to see if the truck was there he had still not shown up. The guy could be in Mexico by now as far as we know. I am hoping that in a week or two the guy will get his guard down and show back up to the site but that is highly unlikely. But Gordon and I are keeping our eyes open for lunch trucks in the area and will be researching them.

So not only were we blessed with some nice neighbors but we were really blessed with the family support this weekend. Gordon’s sister let us borrow a truck. Some of you may remember Gordon’s old white truck, well he had given it back to his parents when he got his grandpa’s car, they in turn gave it to his sister Kathy to give to her son when he turned 16. He apparently doesn’t want to drive a stick, which I don’t blame the guy, that is pretty hard to do for your first car, so it has been sitting in her driveway for awhile and she said sure why not, you can borrow it. So we send out a huge thank you to Kathy for letting us have the truck until my car gets fixed. In the meantime I will be driving Gordon’s huge grandpa car. I would rather have the truck but I cannot drive stick so he has the honor of driving it to and from work each day. My car unfortunately will not be done until around the first of October.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Hit N' Run

Today I slept in a long time I was so tired and it was so hard to wake up. I finally woke up at about 11am or so and did my normal routine of getting cleaned up, checking my email and then doing my scheduled chores. My chore for today was going online and going job searching. At 12:10pm Gordon called me at lunch and we chatted for a bit and then I went on my merry way surfing the net for jobs again listening to music. As I was sitting here in my computer room I heard the trash tucks going (because today was trash day) and then I heard a horrible crash outside. Being the snoopy neighbor I am I immediately decided to go out in front and to see what had happened… then it all became so surreal… as I went walking outside there across the street parked against the curb was my car and the whole back in was smashed in! I was rather speechless and then I saw three neighbors outside and I asked them if they saw who did it because no one was there. All three neighbors told me the same thing that they saw a roach-coach speeding away. This guy that was visiting his brother on the corner house said that the roach-coach was going so fast around the corner that it almost tipped over as it went.

I ran into the back to get my phone and shoes and started yelling for Ron, my landlord that lives in the house behind mine and asked him to come get me in his truck and hunt down these guys, so Ron came around and we started driving around like two vigilantes and then we saw a cop and flagged him down. I told them what had happened so they went to my house and started a report and started talking to witnesses. They said that they would start searching the area for the truck but by the end of the day they came up with nothing… however… everyone said that it is the same roach-coach that comes everyday, twice a day to this construction site down the street from our house where they are building apartments. The police said they would scope out the area tomorrow to see if they come back. Hopefully if these guys were stupid and ignorant enough to do a hit and run on my car, hopefully they will be stupid enough to come back to the job site tomorrow.

All I have to say is thank God that I was not in the car when that happened and thank God there were no kids around playing or someone would have gotten killed. We have pretty good insurance and they sent us to this body shop in Garden Grove that is owned by the sweetest Korean couple. I asked them since they do this type of work so much for a living what they thought by just looking at it what the estimated damages were and they said anywhere from 6-8k… we have a $1000 deductible and right now Gordon is the only one working and I am frantically looking for a job so we are really stressed out right now and plus Gordon doesn’t know how much longer he has his job for.

But so many blessings have been coming our way lately, we had a completely great weekend, Gordon & I both decided to go down to Corona Del Mar on Saturday and to get baptized together, it was our way of showing God that we were committed to serve Him not only as individuals but as a couple and that whole weekend was continually blessed. We had Gordon’s parents over on Saturday for a nice dinner and then on Sunday my mom came over and taught me how to cut my roses in my yard. Gordon feels as if this is just a spiritual attack that happened to us and I have this feeling that for some insane reason this is probably part of God’s plan for us. Not sure what in the heck the plan is but I just have this peace that everything is actually gonna be OK and that God is in complete control right now. I really thought that I would have broken down and cried but surprisingly I was rather calm after I stopped shaking. Gordon started to get a bad anxiety attack but shortly became really calm himself. We just prayed and felt like this was some kind of crazy story we would have to tell years from now.

The funny thing was that just a few nights ago I was thinking of what a great little car I had and how it was just gonna last me years to come and I only have 2k left to pay on the car and then this happened! And not only that but my car is a 2002 Toyota Corolla and I got the car on 09/10/01 which was the day before the big 9/11 thing and this happened on 09/12/07 which was the day after 9/11, kind of strange in my book I might say.

Anyways, I will keep everyone posted on the outcome of this and let you know if we find the guys who are responsible for this. I have gone on my own too and asked this couple that lives straight across the street from the construction site if they could call me if the truck shows up tomorrow and get the license plate and everything, they were more than willing to help. Also, my neighbor told me later on that as the truck hit my car that there were some trash men doing the trash when it happened, so I am gonna call Midway City Sanitation tomorrow and ask them if they can help me out in this to see if there guys actually saw this hit take place. So please pray for us we really need it right now.

Here is my baby all broken; you will see why I am so grateful I wasn’t in the car when this happened….

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